One hour. No scripts, no generic frameworks pulled from a manual. Honest, psychologically-grounded coaching built entirely around your situation — wherever you are right now.
Understanding why you show up the way you do — and how to shift it.
Attracting the right people, reading situations clearly, showing up with genuine confidence.
Processing loss without losing yourself — and understanding what the relationship was really about.
Setting limits that come from self-respect, not fear or people-pleasing.
Saying what you mean without shutting down or losing the thread of the conversation.
Building self-assurance that does not depend on other people's approval.
Navigating the hard choices — stay, leave, try again, or let go completely.
Identifying why the same situations keep repeating — and breaking the cycle for good.
John Gagiu holds a Master's degree in Psychology, is a Gottman Level 1 certified practitioner and spent over a decade as a church minister in Newcastle — roles that required him to sit with people at their most vulnerable.
What makes his coaching different is not his credentials. It is that he has navigated the same emotional terrain his clients face — divorce, attachment wounds, the long work of rebuilding. He is not reading from a textbook. He has lived the chapters.
Most people do not need more advice. They need someone who can see what they cannot see yet.
Sessions available in person in Newcastle or online. £150 for 60 minutes.